Frequently Asked Questions

As a Registered Legal Document Assistant, I can prepare all your legal documents with precision and accuracy, but I cannot provide legal advice or represent you in court. This distinction is actually a benefit—it means significant cost savings while still ensuring your paperwork is done correctly.

What sets me apart is my combination of credentials: I have paralegal training for document accuracy, an MBA for financial understanding, a psychology degree for emotional support, and Master Certified Divorce Coach certification for comprehensive guidance.

Think of it this way: I handle the paperwork professionally while providing emotional support and strategic guidance that many attorneys don't offer.

Most families save $10,000-$20,000 or more. Here's the breakdown:

• Traditional attorneys: $300-$500+ per hour each (both spouses typically need representation)
• My document preparation: Starting at $1,500 total
• Divorce coaching: $150 per session (optional)

Even more valuable are the intangible savings: less stress, faster resolution, preserved relationships, and children who don't witness their parents fighting.

Yes! I'm licensed to prepare legal documents throughout California and provide divorce coaching services statewide. All consultations can be conducted remotely via phone, video call, or email.

I'm based in Paso Robles (San Luis Obispo County) and work with families from Los Angeles to Sacramento and everywhere in between. The beauty of the amicable approach is that it works well remotely—we're collaborating, not battling in courtrooms.

In-person meetings are available by appointment in my Paso Robles office, but most clients find remote consultations convenient and effective.

Disagreement is normal—that's where my psychology background and divorce coaching training become invaluable. I provide tools and techniques for effective communication and collaborative problem-solving.

My approach includes:

• Facilitating productive conversations
• Teaching conflict resolution techniques
• Helping focus on children's best interests
• Finding creative solutions that work for both parties

If major disagreements persist, I can refer you to appropriate mediation services while continuing to support you through the process.

California has a mandatory 6-month waiting period from the date your spouse is served with divorce papers until the divorce can be finalized. This is state law and applies to everyone.

However, with proper document preparation and an amicable approach:

• Paperwork completion: 4-6 weeks
• Court filing and processing: 2-4 weeks
• Waiting period: 6 months from service

The emotional healing and establishing new co-parenting relationships often continues beyond the legal process, which is where ongoing divorce coaching can be invaluable.

"Holistic" means I address the whole person and family, not just the legal paperwork:

• Emotional support through my psychology background
• Financial guidance through my MBA training
• Co-parenting support for your children's well-being
• Legal document accuracy through paralegal training

"Amicable" means focusing on cooperation rather than conflict:

• Working together instead of fighting against each other
• Protecting children from parental conflict
• Building a foundation for positive future relationships

This approach leads to better outcomes for everyone, especially children.

Our free consultation typically lasts 30-45 minutes and is completely confidential. Here's what we'll cover:

• I'll listen to your situation without judgment
• We'll discuss your goals and concerns
• I'll explain your options in plain English
• We'll review costs and timelines
• You can ask any questions you have

There's absolutely no pressure to hire me. The goal is for you to understand your options and feel confident in whatever decision you make.

Many people leave the consultation feeling relieved and empowered, often saying "I wish I had called sooner."

Absolutely. Child custody and support are often the most important aspects of a divorce, and they're areas where my holistic approach really makes a difference.

I can prepare all necessary documents including:

• Parenting plans and custody agreements
• Child support calculations using state guidelines
• Visitation schedules that work for everyone
• Holiday and vacation arrangements

More importantly, my divorce coaching helps parents:

• Put children's needs first in all decisions
• Develop effective co-parenting communication
• Protect children from parental conflict

The goal is arrangements that serve your children's best interests while being practical for both parents.

My MBA background is particularly valuable for families with complex financial situations. I can help with:

• Real estate division and property valuations
• Retirement account divisions (QDROs)
• Business valuation considerations
• Debt allocation strategies
• Investment portfolio divisions

For extremely complex situations (high-net-worth divorces, multiple businesses, international assets), I may recommend additional professional support such as forensic accountants or financial advisors.

However, many families are surprised to learn that their situation is more straightforward than they initially thought, and the amicable approach can handle their needs effectively.

Getting started is simple and stress-free:

Remember: The initial consultation is completely free and confidential. You have nothing to lose by exploring your options.